A (blah) buh-bye to 2018

Feeling tongue-tied this New Year’s Eve — with 4 hours remaining in 2018.

Were that I had something inspirational to write.

Were that I did resolutions, that’d be something to write about there.

I feel blah. But not so blah to keep me at home. (“Home” is a rental room in the roommate’s condo so not home a’tall.)

I’m heading out anon to the little metaphysical store for a party. There’ll be readers, drumming, acupuncture, food and champagne at midnight — all for $12. Low-key, small group, about my speed.

This’ll be different for a New Year’s Eve celebration!

My first New Year’s Eve since moving into metro Phoenix a couple months ago. It’ll be memorable, however it shakes down.

Thanks to technology and live-streaming, we don’t have to be at Times Square or even own a TV to view that major event. I took a peek to get in the spirit. Boring musical performers so I switched over to Spotify for New Year’s Eve playlists. An improvement.

‘Tis the end of the year, no denying that, and while it’s not been the worst year, it’s been challenging enough, particularly in health developments, so I’m eager to view it in the rear-view mirror.

Really just wanted to write something before bidding buh-bye to 2018.

No pearls of wisdom here tonight. No boisterous celebration or excitement about the coming year just yet.

Here, a handful of one-liners to lift the mood and end both this post and year on a high(er) note:

  • A woman walks into a library and asked if they had any books about paranoia. The librarian says “They’re right behind you!”
  • My wife accused me of being immature. I told her to get out of my fort.
  • Did you hear about the Italian chef that died? He pasta way.
  • As I suspected, someone has been adding soil to my garden. The plot thickens.
  • The other day, my wife asked me to pass her lipstick but I accidentally passed her a glue stick. She still isn’t talking to me.

White Trash (Mix) has got serious street cred

Let’s talk trash. White trash.

Specifically Alton Brown’s white trash.

Alton Brown, you know. The esteemed, witty, sorta snarky science-y chef on Food Network and elsewhere.

So last night I was scouring web sites for hours for cookie recipes.

I’m an excellent cook and foodie and super-discerning recipe reader. Separating the wheat from the chaff — how suitable that saying at this very moment! — takes patience, endurance, persistence and time.

Which, according to the calendar, is tick-tick-ticking! How’d Christmas get so damn close?!?

Now, I don’t wanna throw just any ol’ chunks of sugar to my (adult) son, the only person I gift — invariably from the kitchen — at Christmas.

Then I stumbled upon: White Trash. A decadent delight of sweet ‘n’ salty.

Hmmmmmmmmm, this is different. I’m intrigued. Scour on.

OMG! It’s got serious street cred. People loooove it. Crunchy Chex cereals, nuts, pretzels, M&Ms, all coated in white chocolate.

That’s the core. Tweakings are vast and varied, to understate.

Even folks who don’t care for white chocolate (c’est moi) report they can’t stop eating it! That it’s dangerous to have in the house.

I press onward, eventually landing onto Alton Brown’s recipe.

Wait! The smart ‘n’ sassy Alton Brown’s got a recipe for uber junk food?!? Indeed he has!

I love it!

Well, except for the quantity — 25 servings. I’m treating my son and his familiars, not a militia!

It’s different from annual cookies. Easy to make. Affordable. Ships well. Keeps well.

What’s not to like – save for sugar sugar sugar.

Anyhow, I’m in, venturing into the snacky scene this season.

Since I discovered White Trash randomly via some stranger’s post, I’m gonna pay it forward … with the link to Alton Brown’s recipe and a couple pix.

If you’ve tried this concoction, talk to me, baby. Talk trash. Make it white, make it tasty.



“Dole this stuff out carefully. It is highly habit forming,” warns Alton Brown.


A snack that’s called “crack.” Will report back on that.

Superman and Tom Cruise collide

I met a man with the powers of Superman and the wealth of Tom Cruise.

Of course I didn’t know that when he and I struck up a conversation at the nice bar last night.

I wasn’t drunk, though in retrospect it may’ve helped.

Bill was slightly inebriated but then Superman’s got a lot on his plate. He’s entitled to unwind. Especially at his age, a guesstimated 54. He’s done plenty for the planet through the decades.

My curiosity posed to him the question: “If you knew you had only 24 hours left to live, how would you spend them?”

Straight-up. For real. Within the parameters of planet earth.

The uber-short version. If you knew how this all really went down, you’d thank me profusely!

First, he’d go home and give his wife all the passwords to his online accounts and such.

That’s an hour. You’ve got 23 remaining.

“Next I’d drive to the beach,” he says. San Diego. A straight shot west. Some 400 miles (645 km).

That’s 6-1/2 hours driving at the very least. Under the most ideal and impossible of conditions. Little to no traffic in southern California or Phoenix. No accidents bringing the fast interstate to a dead halt (which happens frequently).

“I can make it in 4 hours,” he says. Absolutely serious. “You’ve never seen me drive.”


To accomplish that, he needs to sustain a speed of 100 miles an hour (161 kph) for four hours, including through southern California.

Realistic? he insists so. “And I won’t care about speeding tickets since I’m about to die.”

Granted. Delusion is beginning to grip his mind but he doesn’t or hear it. He’s morphing from Kent Clark into Superman before my eyes.

He arrives at the beach in the wee hours. Too cold to swim. So he and the wife get a hotel room. “A nice one, since the end’s near.”


But he doesn’t sleep. Still things to do in the some 13 hours remaining.

So he goes fishing. Not at a lake or stream. Ocean fishing. He hires a boat off San Diego. No advance notice. No reservation. Just walks in and off they go. Bill pays through the nose but no problem. “Money talks.”

Now at this leg in his story, he’s become filthy rich.

He’s not the quiet middle-aged IT guy sitting by himself at a bar I met 25 minutes earlier. He’s loaded and insists every word’s true even as I endeavor to steer him back to reality.

Every fantastical step leads to an even greater fantastical step.

His Southern California fishing expedition ends around noon. He’s got 6-1/2 hours left to live. What’s he do now?

“I’m going skiing.” In northern California. Tahoe.

How are you doing that?

“I hire a helicopter.” On the fly. Like the boat.

Again, dead serious. Neither a flinch nor a sly smile suggest he’s goofing.

Not a short flight from San Diego to Tahoe, where he says there’s snow. Maybe there is. Maybe not.

Who am I to question the prowess of Superman or the opportunities availed by unreal wealth.

Speaking of unreal …

With only 6 hours left to live, I wonder whether this helicopter ride across California to the mountaintop is a realistic goal. He says it is.

Because he’s got money. Not just some vague wad of cash but $20 million!! Not as much as Naomi Watts but close.

“Wow! You’ve got $20 million?!?!?!”

You’d never guess by his homely appearance, blue jeans, sports shirt and quiet presence in a bar in southern Arizona.

With that moolah, you’d think he’d at least live in a nice home away from the sardine-canned Phoenix and have dinner beyond the discount happy hour appetizers and beers. But whatever.

“You’re buying me dinner and paying for my two beers then!” I say.

He doesn’t oblige.

So now he’s skiing – though never explaining how a helicopter lands on the snowy slopes.

“You’ve got like 3 hours left. Is this where you die? Skiing down the slope?”

“No,” he says.

“Now the helicopter”– that he’s paid millions for at the drop of a hat, don’t forget — “takes me to Universal Studios. For the tour.”

“A HELICOPTER takes you to Universal?! Reeeeeeaaaallyyyy. Where does it land?”

“In the parking lot. Between the cars”

For the 10th time, unflinchingly serious. He’s speaking delusionally and all efforts on my end to introduce parameters of  realism fall on deaf ears.

“So it doesn’t matter about the FAA — aviation — regulations? Or that there’s NO SPACE for a helicopter to land? Or that the pilot could lose his license?”

“Nope. Money talks.”

He confirms for the 10th time that yep, he’s got $20 million — mostly in assets. “Does your wife know? Can I text her? She should know.” He won’t give me the number.

So his wealth, pull and power — even more extraordinary’s than Tom Cruise’s!

Here’s where his 24 hours and this story end.

Thank god.

He stopped being “fun” to talk with 30 minutes earlier, when he insisted he could make a 400-mile drive across two states in 4 hours.

But I pressed onward — in a hope that he’d hear how outrageous he was being and answer in the spirit of a good question,

He stopped being realistic.

He stopped being a somewhat entertaining conversationalist.

He kinda became a jerk.

He became uninteresting. Whatever entertainment value earlier had already evaporated.

Then he became kinda scary.

What I observed is a quality sometimes found in the criminal mind — delusions mingled with a soft of sociopathy. I even told him so.

As a criminal, he’d be a tough nut to crack. He’d frustrate investigators with an ability to build his house of cards with a stone face and tell their tales as if he truly believed the cards were real yet knowing full well they’re not.

In the same broad ballpark as psychopathic lying.

What’s especially troubling is that he’s got a long career in IT. A field where parameters is in the earliest vocabulary and the abilities to discern, analyze and plug into reality must far exceed the norm.

Talking with him — there’s an hour I’ll never get back.

I was done when he slowly turned his journey into one fantastical.

I shut him down and out. Pulled out the library book that I’d intended to read when I arrived and said not one more word to him.

Soon he confessed he doesn’t have $20 million. Oh no, you don’t say!!!

Then he tried his hostile damnedest to turn the topic to God and religion. He tried to rattle my chain.

A religious zealot. Not surprising.

I didn’t bite. Or nibble.

I read my book, sipped my beer. I was done with him.

He soon left.

If ever we cross paths again, I shan’t waste a minute of my time. I do feel sorry for his wife.

It all illustrates that it’s not what you do for a living that matters really but who you are as a person, the quality of your mind, the depth of your reasoning and breadth of your sanity.

Tonight, thanks to this story told, Superman is getting his cape back.

As for Tom Cruise, not even he, with his immense fortune, persuasiveness and star powers, could accomplish what Bill accomplished in his final 24 hours. Not even half.

Tonight, Tom’s spending his bucks in 3-D time on earth.

And the planetary orbit rights itself yet again …


Mermaid Song Drowned by Drivel

What happened to America?

Insanity is what happened. Political correctness then liberal lunacy are what happened.

Today I make an exception to my blog as my voice to share a newsworthy piece. The absolute absurdity compels me to copy-paste the Daily Wire article by Ashe Schow.

The new norm in America is darker and more evil than even Isaac Asimov could conjure up. To the news …


An all-male a cappella group at a prestigious university will no longer sing one well-known Disney song because some audience members — and one sophomore who wrote an article about it for the student newspaper — found it to be “uncomfortable.”

Of course, this is all happening at an Ivy League college: Princeton University.

One of the school’s all-male a cappella groups, the Princeton Tigertones, will no longer perform its popular rendition of “Kiss the Girl” from The Little Mermaid after the complaints. During their performance, the group invites a woman from the audience to join them as they sing and “playfully dance with her for a bit,” according to Inside Higher Ed.

As the song reaches a close, the group invites a male audience member, pretend to groom him, and then put the two together, asking that they kiss, as the song suggests. The random couple complies, “sometimes on with a peck on the cheek, sometimes briefly on the lips,” Inside Higher Ed reported.

The entire scene is harmless and done in good fun, which of course does not sit well with the modern outrage crowd.

On November 26, sophomore Noa Wollstein wrote an opinion article for the Daily Princetonian asking the Tigertones to stop singing the song because it “is more misogynistic and dismissive of consent than cute.”

“Its lyrics raise some serious issues. The premise of the song, originally sung in the Disney film The Little Mermaid, is that the male Prince Eric, on a date with the beautiful female Ariel, should kiss her without asking for a single word to affirm her consent. Despite the fact that an evil sea-witch cursed Ariel’s voice away, making verbal consent impossible, the song is clearly problematic from the get-go,” Wollstein wrote.

She claims that if you take away the mermaids and the magic, the “message comes across as even more jarring.” She cites the lyrics “It’s possible she wants you too/There’s one way to ask her/It don’t take a word, not a single word/Go on and kiss the girl, kiss the girl” and ““she won’t say a word/Until you kiss that girl,” as problematic.

These lyrics, she insists, “unambiguously encourage men to make physical advances on women without obtaining their clear consent.”

Wollstein conflates “clear consent” with “verbal consent,” something that has been happening on college campuses since California introduced its absurd “affirmative consent” law, which essentially defines all sex as rape unless an awkward and unnatural set of steps are followed. Even though the law ensures that non-verbal consent is valid, in practice, students who can’t prove verbal consent (or who are accused of not obtaining affirmative consent) are punished.

Wollstein wasn’t done criticizing “Kiss the Girl,” insisting this song “launches a heteronormative attack on women’s right to oppose the romantic and sexual liberties taken by men” and promotes “toxic masculinity,” all phrases modern “feminists” use after taking an Outrage Studies class.

There is no indication that Ariel didn’t want Eric to kiss her — just the opposite, in fact. No one hears this song without thinking about the movie and the context involved. A few points about this scenario:

1. This is a Disney movie, people.

2. It is abundantly clear that Ariel DID want the kiss because she loved Eric and had a contract with Ursula to get him to kiss her.

3. No man, ever, has thought he could walk up to strange women and kiss her because he heard this song in a cartoon when he was a child.

Wollstein implored the Tigertones to drop the song, not just because of the lyrics, but because the group invited volunteers to kiss on stage. Wollstein claimed the volunteers “are often pressured to join the singers by their friends’ cheers and the unrelenting appeals of a Tone.”

She claims to have seen “a queer student” forced to “push away” the male participant and heard that “unwilling girls being subjected to their first kisses.”

Because one can’t guarantee that the audience participants don’t view a simple peck as a debilitating sexual assault, Wollstein wanted the performance canceled.

Here’s the kicker: The Tigertones obliged.

“Our group is always striving to impart joy and positivity through our music, and we take very seriously any indication that we fall short of this goal,” said Wesley Brown, president of the Tigertones, wrote to the Princetonian.

“For that reason, we want to make sure that all audience members feel encouraged to reach out to the group and initiate a dialogue if they ever feel that any aspect of our show is upsetting or offensive. Our repertoire, traditions, and group as a whole are constantly evolving, and thus we value this opportunity to ensure a more comfortable performance environment moving forward.”

My Tour de Force keeps rollin’

My dream of a white — I mean blue — Christmas may come true!

A lil’ early but I’ll take it.

I’ve been tailing, figuratively, a car in this subdivision for weeks. The issue is twofold.

(1) The illegality of a car abandoned and/or unmoved for days to weeks at a time, per local code:

“Any vehicle left unattended on a street/highway for 48 hours may be removed by any police officer/employee.”

(2) The incredible strain that the owner, by leaving his car perpetually unmoved, is putting on residents already struggling under the weight of a severe parking shortage.

Like I’ve said, welcome to the Big (Rotten) Apple of Arizona … La Aldea subdivision in metro Phoenix, where parking’s as scarce as New York City’s.

By tailing this vehicle that the owner’s storing on the streets as if they’re his personal garage, I mean persistently and diligently reporting it to the police.

They come tag the car — big shoutout to the police, THANK YOU! — with an orange 48-hour warning stickie on the window.

The car owner eventually spots this, moves his car then leaves it to sit again indefinitely. Or until he’s warned again and under the threat of towing.

The car’s actually never driven or used.

Like a chess piece, it just gets moved — by inches or by yards — enough to satisfy the legal requirement that it be moved and thereby evading towing

The car was last tagged Saturday when I called it in.

Some 24 hours later, it still sat, warning tag still on the window.

YES!!! We’re halfway home!

Another 24 hours and the car could be legally towed, an invaluable space opened for the community and this longstanding problem maybe resolved.

Then the very next moment, the car … wait for it … got moved.

Obviously its owner spotted the warning — his 4th or 5th in two weeks — and moved his car …


But where?!

This is progress because thus far,  he’s moved it, well, as little as possible.

My roommate, who’s less invested in doing the right and legal thing than I but is supportive witness, noticing the car was moved after this last warning actually cruised these streets twice to locate it.

Didn’t find it, he said.

How curious.

I’m gonna be conducting my own Tour de France here shortly.

Make that Tour de Force.

My one goal, my one purposeful and impassioned ambition by year’s end is to get this resolved, legally and justly.

The car needs to go.

The owner needs to assume responsibility and face the results of his ongoing (shitty and illegal) actions.

The situation on all levels needs to be rectified and righted, like a listing ship at sea.

How that happens is not my call. That is to the divine.

I’m only the driving force. Driving. No pun intended.

I need to just keep doing the right and fair and legal thing. Each veery step of the journey and no matter its length or duration.

I have stayed the course, despite massive obstacles and roadblocks — again, no pun intended — heaved my way, many of which were from the HOA itself.

A loathsome bunch but that’s another subject.

Part of me’s elated. This may finally be resolved.

Part of me’s cautiously optimistic.

Just because the car’s not illegally hogging space at the moment doesn’t mean it won’t reappear.

So a pending celebration. Ice the champagne but don’t unleash those bubbles just yet.

I’m off to scour these subdivision streets for that Subaru Tribeca (with New Mexico plates). See whether the results are identical to my roommate’s.

My Tour de Force keeps on rollin’ … yet with Spirit as my witness, the finish line may may be in sight! {yahoo!}






















I’m dreaming of a blue Christmas

I always take the higher road, no matter how unjust, horrible, infuriating or cruel the situation and its players.

BUT! Doesn’t mean I don’t fantasize about taking the lower road!

Road. Sheer word luck.

Story short, there’s a car that’s a thorn in the side of residents in this subdivision where there’s a SERIOUS shortage of parking. Bad as the Big Apple’s — New York City’s — hence the moniker for La Aldea subdivision: The Big (Rotten) Apple of Arizona.

This car, a Subaru Tribeca with New Mexico plates, is NEVER driven. It is NEVER moved except under threat of towing, as stated on police-issued tags:

“Any vehicle left unattended on a street/highway for 48 hours may be removed by any police officer/employee.”

This has been going on for weeks and weeks and weeks …

Car sits illegally AND takes up priceless parking space. Selfish son-of-a-bitch owner.

He gets tagged only because I call it in.

Moves the car — in one instance, rolled it merely 6 inches for its two flat tires — thereby satisfying the legal requirement that a vehicle must “be moved in a 48-hour period” and evading towing. Selfish clever evasive son of a bitch.

After the most recent tagging one week ago, and after the car had sat with two flat tires for about a month, he put air in and did move it … wait for it  … half a block.

Where it has remained, unmoved and undriven since.


He’s using these streets as his personal garage. What he’s doing is ILLEGAL and so absolutely sickeningly selfish and disrespectful to residents seriously suffering lack of parking that I want to punch his lights out.

No wordplay intended.

The car needs to go.

The car needs to go.

Like I said, I always take the high road despite the deepest of stressors.

But that doesn’t mean I don’t fantasize about the low road!

All times daily that I pass that car, SITTING THERE, breaking the law, hogging space … I’d like nothing more than to sneak up at night when no one’s around and unscrew those caps and leave him with four flat tires.

It’s that the worst damage that can be inflicted on a car?

Absolutely not.

A more vicious spirit could conjure much worse.

But acts of even minor vengeance — especially when earned, especially when well-deserved and for the good of many — remind me of that fundamental truth:

Karma’s a bitch.

So, enlightened creature that I am, I acknowledge my desire to strike back at this asshole for this problem enduring weeks into months …

and I do the next RIGHT thing.

The higher-road thing.

The legal thing. I contact the police and report the vehicle. Time after time week into week.

The officer had warned me: It can take calling in a car 20 or 30 times before the warned owner slips, forgets to move his car within 48 hours … then buh-bye car hello towing company!

Much as I don’t want it, looks like that’s the path I’m on.

You may be dreaming of a white Christmas. I’m dreaming of a blue one.

Blue as in assistance from the police, yes.

And blue for that vehicle’s owner who finds stuffed into his stocking not a piece of coal but rather a big ol’ impound fee.

A blue Christmas joyous!